This week we had the chance to meet with the pediatric surgeon, neonatologist, and see the NICU.
It was nice to be able to talk and meet with them since our baby was diagnosed with Congenital Diaphragmatic Hernia.
The Pediatric Surgeon talked about what they generally do to take care of CDH kids. He explained from my ultrasounds nothing seemed alarming. That we will just have to wait and see. He mentioned that it is great that she is growing normal on her ultrasounds, full term strong babies have a better chance to survive.
He explained what would happen once she is born. The neonatal team will intubate her and then asses what else she will need based on how she is doing. He told us about the different machines and processes they might have to use to help her. Which if we get to those we will explain them.
It was helpful that he told us why they wait to do surgery until she is ready. There is a process that a babies lungs go through after they are born and we want to give her a chance with that.
Even though we knew quite a bit about CDH before meeting with the Dr. it was so helpful to talk to him about it.
We had a little break before heading to the NICU. We were quickly reminded how hard it is to get naps in when a family is sharing one little room. I am sure the kids will get used to it but I am still not looking forward to it.
That afternoon we met with the Neonatologist about how they care for a CDH baby. It was a similar conversation that we had with the Pediatric Surgeon. Just specific to what they do in the NICU.
The social worker gave us a few tips for the NICU and showed us around. When we were there with Ezra, it was before they built the new section of the NICU, we had a chance to check it out.
It was good, but also a little emotional. Just knowing that we have to go through this all over again. Even walking from the hospitality house to the Children’s Hospital was tough for me. Reminding me of everything we went through with Ezra.
I decided to read some more blogs of other parents of CDH babies. Which I should just stop doing because even the babies who do awesome, it still makes me emotional about it. At the same time I like it because it makes me familiar of what could happen in the NICU.
Some have asked if everyone will be in Grand Rapids with us, and yes, we will all be there. The whole time. We are so thankful Dave has a job that he is able to be with us. He will take some time off and still be able to work when he can.
Anyway, here are some updated pray request.
We are moving into a new home in August. So this month we need to pack up everything, put it in storage, and be out of this rental before June.
We are moving down to Grand Rapids in the beginning of June, my due date is June 17. We want to be in GR so I can deliver their. We need to find a place to stay or an affordable suite hotel that we can stay at until I deliver.
Pray my water doesn’t break early (Noelle was 2.5 weeks early). I don’t even mind if she comes late. As long as I’m pregnant she is healthy. We want her to be strong.
Pray for the kids. It will be a huge adjustment for them. We want to be there for them, but also to be there for our daughter. Which is hard.
We still need a name too.
We thank everyone of you for caring for us and taking the time to read these post. I will do my best to keep things updated.
Feel free to comment or e-mail us if you have any questions.
A picture of Atreyu playing at the Renucci Hospitality House.
I will figure out how to make the pictures bigger. Right now this will have to do. Lots of blogging things to try and remember from when we blogged about Ezra.
Karen Smith
May 5, 2014 at 12:13 amWe love you Dave and Lauren. You are in our prayers ! Your kids know how much you love them. It will be difficult, but they will be ok. I’m glad you can all be together.
Jeanne Nooney
May 5, 2014 at 12:54 amMy heart goes out to you guys. I am putting you and the rest of the family on the fridge so that I remember to pray for you daily. It must be so hard to cope with this new unknown on the horizon. I wish I had something profound or wise to say, I don’t. But I do know the Lord whom you serve, and that He will uphold you through every trial.
Lauren • Post Author •
May 5, 2014 at 4:46 pmThanks for the prayers
Lauren • Post Author •
May 5, 2014 at 4:47 pmThanks. It’s hard when you are with them all day and then putting a kink in that. But I know they will adjust and do well.